you grace me with your cold shoulder

14th January 2012

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i think the thing i hate most about tom ford (besides liking a single man) is how disappointed i became when i found out he was gay. it’s like i forgot that just because a man is not heterosexual, it deters them from being misogynistic assholes. i forget that gay men are just as capable of perpetuating the myth that all women are worth is their bodies. to see a woman’s body cut up and degraded to become a pair of legs and a man’s cologne in between to sell a product is disgusting. to see her as not even a whole person, but just a cut up part is dehumanizing. and it disturbs me that more people don’t even notice. it disturbs me that i have come to accept this quality from the general male population, but am disheartened by seeing it in my queer counterparts.

i think the thing i hate most about tom ford (besides liking a single man) is how disappointed i became when i found out he was gay. it’s like i forgot that just because a man is not heterosexual, it deters them from being misogynistic assholes. i forget that gay men are just as capable of perpetuating the myth that all women are worth is their bodies. 
to see a woman’s body cut up and degraded to become a pair of legs and a man’s cologne in between to sell a product is disgusting. to see her as not even a whole person, but just a cut up part is dehumanizing. and it disturbs me that more people don’t even notice. 
it disturbs me that i have come to accept this quality from the general male population, but am disheartened by seeing it in my queer counterparts.

Tagged: feminismqueer politics

  1. acomputerwithfeelings reblogged this from nethernox and added:
    i guess both. jaded is the right term. it’s not fair to think all men are like this, but it’s getting hard to see the...
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    Which are you more disturbed about? That you’ve become more jaded about the general male population? Or that you didn’t...
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